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intersectional-intersectionality:
lastsonlost:
kerosene–angel:
sea-anon:
I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.
Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.
She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.
She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.
She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.
She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.
She should not call you names.
She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’
These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.
Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.
No one has the right to hurt you.
I wish someone had told me that these things are actually abuse. I would have been able to escape my ex so much sooner. Reblogging to help other people in similar situations
Same
Sometimes, it’s hard to identify abuse, especially when it’s what you learned to accept from someone you are supposed to trust, like a parent.
That’s where I learned that the abuse women inflict on men is supposed to be acceptable. That if you speak out against it or complain, it means you are a weak man. Hut, it is a weak man who doesn’t speak out. It is a weak person who accepts the abuse of another.
I became stronger by learning what tactics women use to abuse others, because it is not just done to men. And I speak up when I see abuse, whether perpetrated by a male or a female. Abuse should not be tolerated.
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intersectional-intersectionality:
lastsonlost:
kerosene–angel:
sea-anon:
I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.
Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.
She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.
She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.
She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.
She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.
She should not call you names.
She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’
These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.
Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.
No one has the right to hurt you.
I wish someone had told me that these things are actually abuse. I would have been able to escape my ex so much sooner. Reblogging to help other people in similar situations
Same
Sometimes, it’s hard to identify abuse, especially when it’s what you learned to accept from someone you are supposed to trust, like a parent.
That’s where I learned that the abuse women inflict on men is supposed to be acceptable. That if you speak out against it or complain, it means you are a weak man. Hut, it is a weak man who doesn’t speak out. It is a weak person who accepts the abuse of another.
I became stronger by learning what tactics women use to abuse others, because it is not just done to men. And I speak up when I see abuse, whether perpetrated by a male or a female. Abuse should not be tolerated.
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