Oct. 1st, 2018

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buzzfeed:

Meet James Trevino, a 24-year-old book lover who recently graduated from Law school in Romania. He also happens to be the creator behind these amazing book photos.
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whitepeopletwitter:

Not to beat a dead horse.
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madly-handsome:

silkirose:

silkirose:

underlytrashy:

:/

:0

:)

Thisnis the sweetest thing
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thefemaleofspecies:

buckybarnesmp3:

kesus:

Young girls really are pressured now more than ever to be seen as beautiful and sexy and perfect like IG models and whatever the fuck…..like that’s why you see “me at 14 vs 14 year old girls today” posts……….we didn’t have this constant stream of content like they do…..content telling us to be perfect and to have perfect clothes and sharp eyeliner wings that look photoshopped and shit like that….I mean it’s always been there but not like this…and while I think girls should be able to dress however they want and do whatever they want…..you have to take into consideration the fact that this all stems from a toxic culture where women have to be perfect and beautiful…now at younger and younger ages….and it’s really gross…and the media continues to sexualize and like…make young girls seem older and more appealing than they actually are idk the whole thing makes me so uncomfortable and it’s only going to get worse :/

And the wildest thing is, people will still try and justify it with the “there’s always been girls that dress older than they are!” argument. Which is true. But it was never the norm. Pre social media, most young girls were allowed be young girls. Here’s Miley Cyrus, Selena Gomez and Lindsay Lohan at 14/15 in 2001-2007. They were arguably the biggest young stars of the time but this is how they presented

They aren’t being styled to look leagues older than they are. They’re allowed to just be their own age and look their own age. Now, here’s Millie Bobbie Brown at 13 in 2018, Veronika Bonell at 15/16 in 2017, Skai Jackson at 13 in 2015, and Caitlin Carmichael at 13 in 2017.

There is a deep problem in our society that this is what people are styling children to look like. They don’t look like children, they look like young adults. They could wear these exact same looks in 10 years and they wouldn’t be questioned because they’re dressed and made up to present as adults. This is what is presented as normal for young girls, this is the image they’re told is the “right” one, the one they should aspire to.

There’s nothing wrong with girls - or boys - wanting to be pretty. But there is a problem with young girls being constantly told that pretty for them means looking over 21 at 13.

There’s nothing wrong with girls - or boys - wanting to be pretty. But there is a problem with young girls being constantly told that pretty for them means looking over 21 at 13.
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entirelytookeen:

bifacts:

bifacts:

Fact: Today (September 23rd) is bisexuality awareness day. Be aware of bisexuals. They are dangerous.

The eve is upon us. Light your candles. Sharpen your teeth. Prepare.

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brehaaorgana:

j.k.r. needs like one close friend to sit her down and go: “okay, but, go over this with me again. you decided the evil snake your dark wizard kept as a pet and vessel of his fragmented horrific soul - the one that has to be murdered in order to defeat the evil wizard - is in fact….an asian woman who was cursed to eventually become a beast and monster in her own body. am i getting this right? the asian woman turns into a snake because her bloodline is cursed and then she becomes the pet of a white supremacist with magic. you invented a body curse specifically for turning women into monsters and your first thought was not like, subversion of fairy tale misogyny but….to add a layer of racism? just trying to understand here.” 
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gothiccharmschool:

animationsource:

The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993) | dir. Henry Selick

YES HELLO IT IS OCTOBER NOW. 
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counsellorsuggestion:

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.
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vorpalgirl:

lynati:

jabberwockypie:

Just read about the stupid Nagini Maledictus thing.

Had the joy of telling @deadcatwithaflamethrower about the Maledictus thing and watch her make the “Are you fucking kidding me? That is so fucking stupid” face that she makes a LOT when words fall out of JKR’s mouth.

I hope I *never* become so enamoured with my own hype that I stop considering whether or not the idea I just had is actually terrible.

JKR and George Lucas are both cautionary tales we need to keep in mind should ANY of us become Successful Writers Who Sell Lots of Stories.

It’s not just arrogance in one’s inherent talents or abilities  - though that’s in there - that is the problem: no, it’s also the lack of knowledge, and the specific arrogance of the assumption that you know how things are/should be, without bothering to collaborate or touch base with ANYBODY else first. 

As human beings, we can only have one set of experiences, one (fallible) human mind, and there are always going to be huge gaps in what we think we know, compared to what we actually know - and if you haven’t lived with, say, racism (or sexism, or heterosexism, etc), if you’ve never lived X, Y or Z life, then you don’t know what you don’t know about those things!

And some of these things will seem REALLY OBVIOUS to other people, especially those who’ve lived it. 

And some of those things that you might get wrong? Could be very hurtful, even damaging, or, at best, just embarrassingly silly mistakes that make you look like you can’t even use Google or, if well-off like JKR, think to pay someone to do it for you (every HP fan still currently following the discourse around the “official canon” is well aware by now how ridiculous it would be for America to only have ONE wizarding school, for instance. Many others are aware that her portraying all “Native American” wizards as having the same “wandless” approach to  magic sounds like nonsense when you account for the 500+ legally recognized tribes/nations in the USA alone and their sheer cultural diversity, either. Etc.).

My advice, from watching “big name” Creatives fail at this kind of thing more than once (I mean, there’s a reason I brought up George Lucas and not just JKR)?

If you’re a writer (or, especially, filmmaker), then don’t believe the standard narrative: there is no such thing as a storyteller, let alone on that scale, who does it “alone”.

It’s always with support! The question is just who and what that support is.

There’s tons of, for example, evidence that men like Tolkien and other famous male writers, had the privilege of even spending a lot of time writing at all, just by virtue of being well-off, and/or having women in their lives (mothers, wives) and/or servants, to help take part the burden of living off from them. Film-making is, by default, inherently collaborative, as are theatrical plays and much of music. Even comedians will test many of their jokes out on people they’re close to, usually, and writers often have beta readers and, if professional, editors and proofreaders.

Now, JKR didn’t originally have much of that (remember: she was a single mom on welfare when she wrote her first novel), so, what’s really important for our purposes is this:

It’s not shameful for a Creative to ask for second opinions. None! And if you’re discussing ANYTHING that would touch on an experience outside your own, it’s NEVER a bad idea to double-check you’re not getting it Wrong, as part of your research/development, and editing steps.  

Whether that experience is “combat medic”, “person of color”, or “LGBT+ person” - it’s never going to be a bad thing to look to actual people who have had or would know better about the experiences that you have never had and never will. Something that, thanks to improvements in communications technology around the world, is much, much easier nowadays! So long as you’re polite and respectful, there’s literally NO downside to this kind of research.

I mean it. None! Think about it:

* At “worst” (assuming you’re polite about it anyway) the results will be: you’ll prove to have been intuitive on X thing (lucky you!), but gain a reputation for being Thoughtful and Thorough, which is never a bad set of traits in a Creative, least of all storytellers and writers and filmmakers! That kind of thing is basically just a little pair of things we call “attention to detail” and “being considerate to others”, which, are things people tend to admire in Creatives, especially in combination, you know? It also makes people more likely to want to work with you and/or distribute your work, if you actually seem not just inherently competent, but DELIBERATELY competent, because then you’re not just coasting on some kind of inborn talent, you put in the extra work to Get It Right. It also lessens to risk to people taking a chance on your work, whether they’re publishing your book or producing your film, that they’ll have the project bite them in the ass, and it gives the audience confidence that you won’t betray their trust and will give them something well-thought-out! Huh. Doesn’t sound so bad, does it?

* “Best” case scenario, though? It proves necessary. Oh man, you needed to hear some tough truths to prevent something that would have been disastrous in some way! You save yourself a huge amount of embarrassment, preserving part of your legacy as positive rather than negative, and additionally save some of your audience a measure of pain and, probably, frustration with you. 

So….basically win/win??

tldr: Creatives, always do your research and reach out to people who have experiences you want to touch on but haven’t yourself experienced, because, best case scenario, you prevent hurt and don’t embarrass yourself, and “worst” case scenario…you confirm what you already thought you knew, but come across as… professional and likable? GASP!

THERE IS NO DOWNSIDE. Just do it, trust me! 
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melthedestroyer:

Me: [gently, very gently trying to pry the Harry Potter franchise out of JKR’s white-knuckle grip] That’s it… You’ve had enough now…

JKR: [hugging it tighter] I thought this was what you wanted! More diversity! More representation! More magic! Magic in the US for all the American fans!

Me: You can’t just retroactively make all the characters fill a checklist, babe, and I don’t know a single American who thinks Ilvermorney makes a lick of sense. Just give it [pulling] here… We don’t need any more content. You’ve done enough. We can extrapolate on our own, now.

JKR: No!

Me: [desperately] You broke your Brits Only rule to support the casting of an abuser as one of your only gay characters. You retroactively made Nagini an Asian Animagus in like, the most fetishistic way you possibly could, and I’m pretty sure it breaks the lore anyway. You’ve got another series going. You can write other stuff! Just…just give it. George, please, tell her!

[George Lucas materializes and puts a sad, defeated hand on her shoulder] Just let it go. It’s not worth it. Now let us go be billionaires in peace.
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