louisloveeleanor: vardaesque: 420stuck: when you shake laminated paper and it does the...

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vardaesque:

420stuck:

when you shake laminated paper and it does the thing

fwuuubufbuwbfwubfufbwufbuwbuuuBUWBUBHUFUFBUWBUFBUB

exactly
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bcydbeaulieu: it’s amazing how straight people

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it’s amazing how straight people think teens don’t need a movie like love, simon when the director who is married and has been out for 20+ years cried when he saw the final movie because even he needed this movie. his husband also cried, countless lgbt teens have cried. one of the main actors came out because of this movie. many of the actors have friends that came out because of this movie, nick’s little brother came out to him after he found out he was doing this movie. i do not want to hear another straight person talk about this movie because frankly y’all will never understand what coming out is. so like shut the fuck up and let us cry and laugh our hearts out with a movie that loves and supports all of us. and that knows coming out will never be easy or a once in a life experience.
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sarkastically: It’s never outright said, but I

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It’s never outright said, but I think it’s at least a little implied that Starlord (Peter Quill) is neurodivergent. I’m not well versed enough to even be able to come anywhere close to what Peter might be in terms of spectrum or ADHD or PTSD, etc. but I think he’s at least some of these things if not all of them. And, yes, some of that might be learned but some of that is just Peter. Meredith was speaking to Peter in MUSIC before she was even sick. Once she got sick, she started doing it more. Peter is incapable of translating Yondu’s affection (as badly parsed as it may be) into actual affection because he doesn’t get it. He doesn’t understand it that way. Ego speaks to Peter with music when talking about his mother. He mentions the song “Brandy” and then Peter gets things more clearly. Yondu’s last gift for Peter is music, indicating that he eventually got it, Peter’s primary emotional language. And, yeah, it was too late because that is not Yondu’s primary emotional language, but he got there eventually.

And. I. Just. 

I think Peter’s world is music. I think his emotions are blatantly mapped out as music. I think sharing of music for him is sharing of his emotions. This is why he wants Gamora to listen. This is why he wants Gamora to dance. This is why his first instinct is to propose a dance-off when faced with a world-ending threat. This is why the loss of his music–the loss of his emotional expression and attachment–is such a problem for him. Such a problem that he nearly risks the escape mission in order to retrieve his Walkman.

It’s just very important to me how important music is to Peter. And I would like to at some point explore this more in a fic. Likely a fic about Peter and Yondu and their problematic relationship, but I’m not sure if I’ll ever be able to get there.
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dare-i-say-asexual: The strongest lesbian power move

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dare-i-say-asexual:

The strongest lesbian power move I’ve ever seen is when right before going into an event I watched a butch let her femme gf put a big red lipstick kiss mark of the butch’s white collar shirt
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consolecadet: I’m not the mom friend,

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consolecadet:

I’m not the mom friend, I’m the dad friend: tries to take care of his friends but is too distant and emotionally clumsy to be any good at it
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aenramsden: infjconfessions: lunarcentrism: phoenix-falls: augustinesycamore: white people are...

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infjconfessions:

lunarcentrism:

phoenix-falls:

augustinesycamore:

white people are racist by default (in the united states as well as other countries). are you white? congrats, you’re racist, and here’s the explanation:

you grew up in a racist society -> you were socialized to be racist thanks to racism being a dominant ideology -> you benefit from racism -> you’re racist no matter how much u think you’re not.

unlearning it is going to be a constant battle and u will never unlearn it fully. accept this. it is ingrained in you as a result of your upbringing and the media you’ve consumed. the sooner you come to terms with your own racism, the sooner u can better yourself. recognize the problem in yourself instead of setting yourself apart from those “other” white people.

I fux heavy with the White people who keep putting this post on my dash

This applies to all social structures by the way.

You’re a man? You grew up benefitting from sexism.
You’re straight? You grew up with homophobic ideals.
You’re cis? You grew up with transphobic ideals.
You’re able bodied? You grew up with ableist tendencies.

The process of unlearning all of the ideology you were surrounded by is what activism is about. Do it.

And even if you’re not privileged under a given social structure, you might still have a lot of internalized things to unlearn

Our society teaches us to hate the oppressed, if an oppressed person says that what you believe or do is harmful and they tell you - don’t get offended, learn and do better

The important thing here is, nobody’s blaming you (the general “you”) for this. I think a big part of the reason people get so offended when they hear these attitudes is because it sounds like “you’re a horrible person and support these things”. That’s not what it means, and that’s not what you are.

But society feeds us a steady diet of memetic poison almost from the day we’re born, and for each blend of poison there are groups who are more or less immune, groups who are harmed in ways they don’t really notice and groups who suffer horribly from it. It’s not your fault that you’ve been fed poison, and nobody is blaming you for having been fed poison.

It’s just… the poison is there, and because you’ve been fed so much of it, it’s in your bloodstream and your lips and your head. And you might not notice it’s there if it’s not harming you or visibly harming others around you, and spread it without realising that’s what you’re doing.

That’s why it’s so important to recognise and identify harmful ideologies for what they are and learn about the harm they do, so you can start checking your first reaction and changing the ways you’ve been taught to act and think.
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feathersescapism: all of my otps. all of them.

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feathersescapism:

all of my otps. all of them. 
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